We haven’t posted in a while, but I’d be remiss if I didn’t say something about the latest transition in Julia’s life. As of yesterday, she’s officially done with preschool and is happily ensconced in “Junior K,” which is a kind of Kindergarten prep course offered by the private daycare / school she’s been in since Julie went back to work. The theory is that it’s a somewhat more structured, classroom-oriented environment than the one at the preschool, which will help ease the transition to real Kindergarten next year.

A lot of people we’ve talked to about this have scoffed at the idea, and not without reason, but we’re hoping it’ll be a good step for Julia. In particular, I’m optimistic that the slightly more classroom-like environment will keep her interested and engaged and possibly push her a bit harder than she would be on the normal pre-K track; I think she behaves better when she’s challenged. We’ll see how things pan out.

That aside, this is a pretty big change for Julia. We still drop her off at the preschool on Lincoln near our house, but at 8:00 she’s bused over to a different campus where the Junior K class meets. Then, at the end of the day, she’s loaded back into a van and trucked back to Lincoln, where we pick her up.

We actually dropped her off at Junior K ourselves yesterday for the first day of class. We wanted to help her get settled and meet her teacher. She’s got her own desk with her name on it, and it’s chock-full of real, honest-to-God school supplies: glue, notebooks, scissors, No. 2 pencils… the works. It was exciting to see, but at the same time, it left me feeling a bit melancholy. If I get this worked up over Junior K, I’m going to be a complete wreck when she graduates from college.

Today, she got to take the bus to school in the morning for the first time. In typical fashion for Julia, she showed a bit of trepidation when the driver called her name to line up, and I wound up holding her hand all the way to the front of the line. In the end, though, she was happy as a clam once she was aboard and settled into a booster seat: she barely looked my way as the van backed out and drove off.

Joseph was actually far more affected by the process than Julia was, and not because he missed his sister. “Daddy, I want to get on bus,” he announced after Julia had clambered into her seat.

“I’m sorry, Joe,” I said, “you can’t get on the bus. The bus is for the big kids who are going to Junior K. When you get bigger and bigger—”

“NO, DADDY! I WANT TO GET ON BUS!” He was crying now, headed for a full-scale meltdown. “I WANT TO GET ON BUS,” he repeated between wails.

I did my best to calm him down. I didn’t want to leave until the van departed, just in case the child whose routine was actually being turned upside-down ran into problems.

“That’s Julia’s bus,” I said. “When you go to Junior K—”

Joseph was having none of it. “I WANT TO RIDE JO-JO’S BUS,” he wailed. “I WANT TO GET ON BUS!”

This continued past the time the van pulled away, all the way down the sidewalk to the infant side of the daycare, through the sign-in process inside, and into Joe’s classroom. Finally, after an additional minute or so of tears, he stopped crying, sobbed once, sniffed, and said, “OK.” And that was that.