Cold Weather, Ch-Ch-Changes, and Fall 2013

It’s finally starting to cool off in our part of California—a part which, fortunately for us, is not currently on fire; there are many who are not so lucky. It’s going to get down to 42° Fahrenheit tonight, a temperature that isn’t that cold by Chicago or Nebraska standards, but still feels pretty chilly when you’re shivering outside the school waiting for the bell to ring.

The situation is exacerbated by the fact that we don’t currently have a functioning furnace. Ours stopped working sometime last winter, and we decided against an expensive repair because we thought that we would surely be out of the house and ensconced in a rental by the time the next winter rolled around. That assumption has worked out really well for us.

For now, the first thing I do in the morning is step into a pair of cozy slippers and pull on a heavy sweatshirt before I head up to the kitchen to make the kids’ lunches. And, after they’ve gone and it’s time for me to get ready for work, I think long and hard before I turn off the water and step out of the warm confines of the shower onto the icy tiles of our bathroom floor.

Of course, the chill in the air means that Halloween is just around the corner. William carved a pumpkin (with Julie’s help) at school today, and had decided, the last time I asked him, that he wanted to dress up as Darth Vader this year. Fortunately, that’s one of the many costumes we already have in his vast collection, so as long as he doesn’t change his mind, we won’t have to buy a new one this year.

This Halloween, for the first time, neither Julia nor Joe seems to be interested in trick-or-treating. Instead, they’re planning to stay home to hand out candy or, just as likely, hide out in their rooms. Although this was an inevitable transition, it’s still bittersweet: they have so much going on in their lives, and so many stressors coming at them from so many different angles, I wish they could hang on to their sense of wonder and fun for one more Halloween and have a night of carefree jollity.

Speaking of fun, frivolity, and bittersweet transitions, we received an email from UPA this week letting us know that the registration deadline for students taking AP tests this year is coming up in a couple weeks. And, in a real first, Julia will be eligible to take the AP World History exam in the spring. I’m gobsmacked that our daughter is taking concrete steps toward (hopefully) receiving college credits, while the memory of her clinging to me every morning as I tried to drop her off for kindergarten is still painfully fresh in my mind.

In other fun news, Julia is set to have her wisdom teeth removed over the holiday break after we return home from Nebraska. This step is a prelude to a series of other procedures on tap for the next couple years that won’t be fun—for us or for her—in the moment, but will pay off down the road if all goes according to plan.

We don’t have any new pictures ready to post at the moment, though I do hope to publish a set this weekend covering Halloween and some other fall adventures. In the meantime, here’s a set of previously unpublished photos from fall 2013 that I’ve finally gotten around to processing. The album contains lots of soccer pictures, any number of cute shots of baby William, and a few snapshots from my very first visit to the Airtime offices in New York City.

Gallery: Fall 2013

School Pictures & Walkathon 2019

Shortly after we posted Julia and Joe’s school pictures, we were notified that William’s was on its way. Had we received it a bit sooner, we could have consolidated all three into a single post, but then we wouldn’t have anything to talk about now, would we?

Without further ado, here’s William’s kindergarten portrait.

Will’s Kindergarten Portrait

His hair is a little long in this picture—and it’s even longer now—but his joyful demeanor comes through pretty clearly. You can find the full-size version, as well as all his past school pictures, in his album.

One event has come to play a central role in our Octobers over the last ten-odd years: the Booksin Walkathon. This year was William’s second official walkathon, and though he wasn’t as outwardly enthusiastic as some Booksin kids, he was motivated enough to want to be there right at the start of the event.

He began the morning walking with me, but the person he really wanted to walk with was Macey, the girl we have been informed that he is going to marry. He spent most of the day walking with Macey or playing with Macey on the side of the course, and when he wasn’t doing one of those two things, he was looking for Macey. It’s not 100% clear whether his ardor is completely reciprocated, but they did seem to have a good time.

Will and Macey pinky promise

In the picture above, Will had just finished his twelfth mile, and in doing so, had earned a candy reward. Macey was still one lap short, so she and Will were pinky promising to meet up at the awards desk to get their candy together.

This is where I came in and—to hear William tell it—messed things up. It seemed silly to me for Will to just wait for Macey at the candy table, especially since it was getting late in the afternoon and he still had a couple miles to go to reach the next prize level. With that in mind, I convinced him to try to catch up with Macey so they could finish her twelfth mile together and get their candy at the same time. Unfortunately, finding her on the course proved harder than I had imagined, and after we finished another lap, Will insisted we head over to the awards desk where, naturally, Macey had already obtained her candy and was wondering why Will had ditched her.

It mostly worked out in the end: Macey had Fun Dip and William enjoyed a Rice Krispies Treat. But William solemnly informed me that I was responsible for a grave faux pas: forcing him to break a pinky promise. Hopefully I’ll be able to live it down someday.

After the pinky promise misadventure, William was really starting to slow down: twelve miles is a pretty good distance for a six year old to cover in a single day. At around 3:30, with about half an hour left in the Walkathon, I thought he was four laps, or about 1.3 miles, short of the 14 miles he needed to earn a frozen treat. I asked him if he wanted to go for it and, to my surprise, he assented. We walked the next two laps at a decent pace, but were still a bit short on time. Will still wanted his ice cream, however, so we ran a good portion of the last couple laps, and made it with minutes to spare.

In the end, he was credited with 15 miles for the day, one more than I thought we’d covered. I’m not entirely sure whether I lost track or there was an error at the lap punching station—both seem equally likely given my mental state after having spent seven hours walking in circles in the sun—but he was derservedly proud of his achievement.

Julia and Joe didn’t miss out on the festivities, either. Even though they’ve been gone from Booksin for several years, UPA has annual community service requirements for its students, and opportunities to pick up big chunks of volunteer hours all at once are golden. Thus, they—and Julie—were at school at 5:45 in the morning to help set up, and they spent the day punching lap cards, handing out awards, working the concessions booth, and helping out at the Crazy Hair station. Julie and Julia even stayed for an extra hour or two after the Walkathon ended to help clean up.

As you can no doubt imagine, everyone slept well that night.

School Pictures 2019 (Big Kid Edition)

It‘s been a busy fall here in San José, with enough happening that there have been scant opportunities for fun diversions like going through photos. At times, it seems that we are barely keeping our heads above water, but the house hasn’t been condemned yet, so I suppose things can’t be that bad.

The older kids both have busy schedules this semester. Joe powered through a full year’s worth of math over the summer so that he could skip ahead to Integrated Math 2 this year, which hopefully will challenge him a bit more than his math class last year. He’s also started Spanish, which presents its own set of challenges and definitely takes him out of his usual comfort zone. I think this is a good thing, as Joe doesn’t always respond with enthusiasm to things that don’t come to him without effort.

Julia is taking AP World history, which seems to be an unstoppable homework-generating machine. She’s also acting in a couple plays this fall (to be fair, she only has a single line in one of them), so her afternoons and evenings are as full as ever. She can be a little grumpy at times when she’s feeling stressed, but there’s no question that she works extremely hard.

Their school pictures came in last week. I’ve included small copies below, but you can find the full-size versions in their respective galleries.

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