Late 2021 Odds and Ends

As we were going through photos for the fall post, I realized that we’d missed a few gems from the November/December timeframe. Because my personal quirks make it impossible for me to tolerate leaving a gap like that unfilled, we’ve put together a collection of odds and ends covering the second half of November and the first half of December.

As it turns out, quite a bit happened during that time. In November, Julie and Julia flew down to Los Angeles to visit colleges (and do a bit of sightseeing while they were there), including Scripps and Occidental, and William finally got his second dose of the COVID vaccine.

In December, Julia played the role of Lloyd in the UPA production of Noises Off. As it turns out, she didn’t get a role in the spring play, so this was her high school drama swan song. I’m told that opening night was a little bit bumpy—apparently there was quite a bit of improvisation—but by the time I saw it Saturday morning, things had settled down quite a bit, and it was a delight to see her on stage.

The next week, Joe performed in the winter band concert. Because of the pandemic, the performance was held outdoors in the early evening. As you can see from the photos, this made for a somewhat chilly experience for the audience, particularly as the evening wore on. Of course, Joe, flaunting his teenage metabolism, sat on stage in short sleeves, seemingly unaffected. He’s happy and proud that he’s been getting a chance to play the first chair parts of during these shows; it’s a testament to the hard work he’s put in during practice and his weekly lessons.

Finally, Joe passed the written driver’s test and picked up his learner’s permit. He is strongly motivated by his goal of being the first among his group of friends to get a license. Unfortunately, actual driving lessons have been on hold, first because of the holidays and later because of the Omicron surge, which saw case rates jump more than tenfold here in the Bay Area. He’s eager to get started again once things settle down. Our numbers seem to be falling just as quickly as they rose last month, so we’re looking forward to returning to a more relaxed posture in a week or two.

Gallery: Late 2021 Odds and Ends

Soccer, Halloween, and Fall Fun

We had a busy fall in 2021: the school year was in full swing; William played on a soccer team for the first time; Grandma and Grandpa Wong came to visit; and, on a bittersweet note, Julia had the once-in-a-lifetime pleasure of applying to colleges. We’ve collected and posted some pictures that capture some of these experiences.

William had played soccer before, of course: starting in preschool, he took classes from Kidz Love Soccer and really enjoyed them. The teacher, Coach Scott, worked hard to make learning basic soccer skills positive and fun.

Until this year, however, he had never played in an actual soccer league, and now that we were settled back in at home, it seemed like as good a time as any to give it a try. He was fortunate to end up on a team with a number of his friends from school, baseball, and other activities, including his best buddy, Kai. Most of the other kids on the team had played before and were a little more comfortable than William with competitive games, but he adapted well. He tried his hardest, kept a positive attitude, and showed clear improvement as the season progressed. His coach adhered to the stereotypical I-yell-because-I-care philosophy, and I was initially worried about how William would respond to that style of teaching, but it didn’t seem to faze him.

In mid-October, Grandma and Grandpa Wong paid us a much-anticipated visit. If memory serves, this was the first time we saw them in person since the middle of 2019, thanks to the pandemic and other factors. They stopped by en route to their home in Texas, after first visiting Bill and Leah in Colorado Springs. Of course, San José isn’t exactly on the way to Georgetown, so we were very happy they took the extra time to stop in; we only wish they could have stayed longer.

Because Will has always been a big fan of dressing up in costumes, you might guess that Halloween is one of his favorite holidays, and you’d be right. This year, he celebrated with no fewer than three costumes: he wore his astronaut costume to school on Friday, and he switched to his Minecraft costume for late afternoon trick-or-treating on Sunday. Later in the evening, as it started to get dark, he switched to a light-up stick figure costume that garnered multiple compliments from neighbors as we went from house to house.

Julie and I split trick-or-treating duty—he was very diligent, collecting more candy than Julia or Joe ever did—and Joe spent the evening with his friend Lucas. Even they, at the advanced age of fifteen, got into the spirit of the holiday and did a spot of trick-or-treating, making sure to visit one of the nearby houses that was known to hand out full-size candy bars. As I write, at the end of January, we’re still working our way slowly through the hoard of candy they accumulated.

This fall finally brought something we’d been waiting for through most of the year: the opportunity for William to get the COVID-19 vaccine. He’s been extremely careful and conscientious throughout the pandemic, even switching to less comfortable (but more effective) KF-94 masks as the Omicron variant became dominant, without raising a fuss. Early on, we had to clarify to him that he didn’t have to wear his mask in the car as we drove from place to place: he was worried that the virus could get in from the outside and infect him.

In that context, he saw first Julie and Julia, followed by Joe and me, get our shots and feel the powerful sense of relief that came with knowing we were largely protected against severe illness. At the same time, we had to explain to him that doctors and scientists were taking the time to be extra careful to be sure that the vaccine was safe and effective in young, growing bodies.

When the Pfizer vaccine was finally approved for kids in his age range, he and Julie were almost the first in line to get a dose. The county converted a section of the vaccination site at the fairgrounds to make it more kid-friendly, complete with toys and a scavenger hunt, and William was pleased as punch to finally be vaccinated. The ice cream treat he got after the fact probably didn’t hurt, either.

Gallery: Soccer, Halloween, and Fall Fun

Epilogue: Landscaping

A quick epilogue to attach to our series of posts about our remodel: we finally have grass! As you can see in the photos, we finished up our landscaping in December, about five months after we moved back into the house.

To be fair, we had always planned to finish the yard in the winter: it’s so dry here in the summer that it wouldn’t make any sense to put a lawn and new plants in, as it would cost a fortune just to keep them alive.

Based on a recommendation from our friends Steve and Maria, we hired Salvador and his team to install a new sprinkler system and sod and to clean up the garden and flower beds so that they’ll be ready to use in the spring. Over the course of a few weeks, they transformed our yard from a barren moonscape to a place that actually seems fit for human habitation. There were a few hiccups along the way. In particular, language was a bit of a barrier, and as a result, the team ended up having to redo a few things that weren’t quite the way we wanted them. But in the end, we were very pleased with the results.

The team started out by turning over the existing soil and removing construction debris left over from July, and they then dug out trenches to accommodate the new sprinkler system: all of the old sprinkler heads, pipes, and valved were either completely gone or not in a usable state.

Unlike our old setup, which featured an automatic system in the back yard and manually operated valves in the front, the new system has timers for both the front and the back. The grass in the back was always a bit healthier than the grass in the front—perhaps because it had a more consistent watering schedule—so we’re hoping the new configuration will bring the front yard up to par.

The controller for the system is on the south side of the house, around the corner from the patio, and the back yard valves are just a few feet away, under a plastic cover in the lawn. On the other hand, the valves for the front yard are up in front of the house, on the other side of the driveway and front walk, close to the living room window. This placement put them close to the outdoor spigot on the north side of the house, which Salvador tapped into to feed water to the valves. To make this setup work, Salvador’s team had to run the control wires under the house in an almost perfect diagonal; the cable run couldn’t be longer if we tried.

After the sprinkler system was set up, we installed sod in front and in back. We gave some consideration to going with a scheme that featured more native and drought-tolerant plants, particularly in view of the severe rain shortfalls we’ve had the last few years. In the end, however, we went ahead with grass because we wanted William and his friends to be able to run around and play in the yard, which is a bit difficult when your landscaping consists of spiny succulents, coarse native grasses, and gravel. Once the kids are grown, we may reconsider.

One section that proved to be problematic was the street tree strip, or parkway. We had grass there in the past, and expected to keep things the same, but it turns out that the roots of the Liquidambar styraciflua, or American Sweetgum, trees that we have there have grown very close to the surface, which would make it almost impossible to establish sod in that area. We ended up putting grass in the middle portion between the trees and planting some ground cover around and to the side of the trees. Right now, the ground cover isn’t looking so hot—maybe it’s been too cold—so we might need to freshen it up in the spring.

Another part of the project that generated some significant discussion was the path on the south side of the house, between the great room and garage walls and the fence. Before the remodel, we had a series of square concrete pavers along that path, with a foot or two of distance between them. This was a simple, low-tech solution that made it easy enough to walk along the side of the house, but didn’t really other help with other common scenarios, like pushing the lawn mover from back to front and back again.

I originally argued to do more or less the same thing again, but Julie and Joe were both adamant that the old approach was insufficient. Instead, Salvador suggested we go with a straight, continuous path consisting of interlocking pavers, with river rock along the sides. In the end, it turned out very well; it both looks better and works better than the previous solution.

Along with the path, Salvador added on a small extension to the fence and built a new gate to control access to the back yard. Our old gate was falling apart long before we started construction, so it’s a nice change of pace to have something we can actually close. It’s a little closer to the side door of the garage than we would have liked, but the placement of the door, the water heater, and the family room window left us with few options.

Finally, the team laid down a few inches of soil in the flower beds and in the garden area along the north side the house, next to our master bedroom and the office. Enzo and his crew did a good enough job cleaning up when they completed their work, but there was still a fair amount of debris and other detritus all over the yard, enough so that Julie was concerned it might make it harder to get things going next spring. With the new soil, everything looks pristine.

Even though we had very good reasons to wait to do the landscaping work, it was still a real relief when it was done. In the summer, the unfinished yard produced vast quantities of dust that blew or was tracked into the house whenever we came and went; and in the winter, there was mud everywhere. Now, we can send the kids out to play without implicitly asking them to go play in someone else’s yard. And, of course, it’s nice not to feel like our place is a bit of embarrassment to the block when neighbors walk by.

Gallery: Epilogue: Landscaping

Christmas 2021

We just wrapped up our trip to Nebraska for Christmas 2021, and it was something of a welcome return to normal holiday routine after two years of relative isolation. In fact, it was my first time going anywhere since February of 2020, which made the whole experience a bit jarring: I’d forgotten many of the petty indignities of air travel.

There was a flurry of activity before we left, which made the week we spent in Nebraska feel all the more relaxing. We put up Christmas decorations in and on the house for the first time since the remodel, including icicles on the second-floor eaves. We weren’t quite sure how to accomplish that, so we paid a team of folks to take care of it, and they made short work of the project. On the whole, they did a pretty good job—the lights look great—but they did leave the exposed end of our triple-trap extension cord in a place where it could slide into the gutter in the event of rain, which naturally, it did a few days later. After we realized the lights weren’t working, Julie and I spent the better part of an hour trying to figure out how to reset the GFCI for the circuit, which happened to be inside the garage, not obviously connected to the outlet the lights were plugged into.

We also added a light-up pig to our front yard ensemble—something that Julie has long desired—and we put electric candles (gifts from Grandma and Grandpa Wong) in the windows of Joe’s bedroom and the play room. When everything is turned on, it seems almost as bright as day in front of the house, but our setup pales in comparison to some of the neighbors’. We noticed this at Halloween, as well: it seems like many people have channeled pent-up energy from being stuck at home into creating ever more fantastic holiday displays.

We set up our Christmas tree at home around mid-month so that we’d have at least a little time to enjoy it before we left town. We debated whether to put it in the family room or the living room and ultimately opted for the latter, right in front of the picture window facing the street. That way, it’s visible from outside when we have the drapes open, and it feels a little more special because it’s in a room we don’t use that often otherwise.

Due to quirks in the San Jose Unified and UPA academic calendars, William’s holiday break started almost a full week before Julia and Joe’s: their semester didn’t end until December 22, while William was released on December 17. With that in mind, Julie made arrangements to fly to Nebraska with William ahead of us, giving the two of them time to bake cookies and otherwise prepare for Christmas while the big kids wrapped up their final exams.

Julie and William left the Sunday before Christmas, leaving the rest of us to fend for ourselves for a few days. Things went relatively smoothly, other than the fact that by mid-day Monday I was experiencing some mild sinus congestion and other low grade cold symptoms. After not having been sick—not even a sniffle—for twenty-two months, my mind went to the worst case scenario: what if we were stuck at home for Christmas while Julie and William were in Nebraska? Fortunately, Julie had picked up some rapid antigen tests for Covid-19 a few weeks earlier, and I came up negative both Monday evening and Wednesday night. A PCR test on Tuesday confirmed the negative result Thursday morning, so I felt OK with flying later that day.

Of course, feeling OK with flying didn’t make the process any less unpleasant than it always is. And flying in the middle of a pandemic made it that much worse. We saw the full spectrum of people’s inability to follow simple directions during our trip: people who “forgot” to put on their masks when they entered the airport; people walking around with their noses hanging out, uncaring or oblivious; people who took off their masks to talk loudly on the phone; and much, much more.

At the departure gate in San José, an older couple sat down a couple seats away from us. The woman was clearly unwell: she was bleary-eyed and sniffly, and looked as though she would have much rather have been in bed. That would have been fine—I wasn’t feeling great, either—but as she started a coughing fit, she pulled off her mask. We just got up and moved at that point; I have no idea what she was sick with, but there didn’t seem to hang around nearby.

Beyond those annoyances, things went smoothly. We were very fortunate that our flights weren’t affected by the wave of cancellations that swept through the industry over the holidays, and we made it to Omaha with no complications more serious than a bit of moderate turbulence heading into and out of Salt Lake City.

Julie picked us up at the airport in Omaha, and it was a nice change of pace to arrive during daylight hours rather than near midnight, as we have in the past. We made a quick stop at a Runza drive-though for dinner and headed up to Norfolk.

The kids were excited to see Grandma Flack and their uncles Bill and Andrew, and it was comforting to participate in Julie’s family traditions. We had roast beef on Christmas Eve and decorated the tree after dinner. On Christmas morning, we opened presents at 8:00 sharp—Julia and Joe are old enough that they probably would have been happy to sleep in, but William was having none of that—and, borrowing a tradition from Grandma and Grandpa Wong, had cinnamon rolls for breakfast. That night, we roasted a turkey that Julie had started brining the day before, and there were plenty of leftovers for soup and turkey sandwiches in the days that followed.

The rest of the visit was even more laid back and relaxing than usual: because of concerns about Covid, we didn’t go out much except for near-daily curbside pickup runs at the grocery store. This gave Julia and Joe some time to slow down and relax after finals, while William was happy just to have so many people around to entertain him. Julia made vast quantities of bacon for breakfast nearly every day, and all three kids ate prodigious amounts of Spaghetti-O’s at lunch throughout our visit.

Our one big outing was to visit Aunt Julie at her nursing home in Madison. To accommodate families who want to visit residents as a group, the facility allows you to book the dining room in the assisted living wing so you can enjoy a private family meal. You can choose between whatever happens to be on the menu that evening or bring your own food, which really didn’t feel like much of a choice at all. Julie and Grandma Flack ordered a hot pulled pork meal, throwing in some brownies as a treat, from the HyVee in Norfolk, and made plans to pick it up on our way to the nursing home.

Unfortunately, things went sideways from there. When we pulled into the marked pickup spot at HyVee and called the number posted on the adjacent sign, we were sent straight to voice mail. We tried a few more times over the next few minutes and couldn’t get through to a person; worse, we discovered the the voice mailbox was full, so we couldn’t leave a message even if we wanted to.

Frustrated, Julie called the main number for the grocery store and spoke to a very nice woman who told us she would put us through the kitchen. We then sat and listened to grocery store sounds for what seemed like an eternity before Julie gave up and called the main line again. This time, the nice woman told us she would walk over to the kitchen to make sure we got through and, to her credit, she did just that. Julie chatted briefly with someone on the other end who assured us that our order would be out promptly.

“Promptly” means different things to different people, but finally, after what felt like a pretty long wait, someone appeared at the car window with brownies and… nothing else. Julie pointed out that this wasn’t right—she had the original order confirmation on her phone—and the person disappeared back into the store leaving us to wait still longer. Finally, the store employee reappeared accompanied by someone from the kitchen who explained their systems didn’t show anything in our order except brownies; the rest of our items seemed to have vanished into the ether.

Out of patience and time, as we’d spent more than twenty minutes sitting in the parking lot, and Grandma Flack and Uncle Bill had already arrived at the nursing home, we took the brownies and audibled: instead of pulled pork, we would have delicious Arby’s roast beef sandwiches for dinner. We zipped off to the drive-through, put in an order for a pile of sandwiches and various types of fries, and finally started on our way to Madison. Luckily for us, they couldn’t start dinner without us because we had all the food.

All the drama aside, we had a very pleasant visit with Aunt Julie; because we had the dining room to ourselves, we could relax and move around without feeling rushed or like we were in the way. Aunt Julie and Julia really hit it off, as Julia regaled her with stories of cute things Felix has done over the last couple years, illustrated by pictures from her phone. Our one major regret is that, after all the excitement, I forgot to take pictures while we were there.

Our return trip on December 30 was blissfully uneventful. Getting home before the start of the new year left us with plenty of time to wind down and re-acclimate to life at home before William’s return to school on January 4 (the older kids, having finished later in December, don’t start again until January 10—this left us plenty of time for Julia to work on college applications). It also allowed us to enjoy one final holiday tradition: Big Fat Pancakes for dinner on New Year’s Day.

Gallery: Christmas 2021

Baseball, Camping, and Spring

This week, we have a selection of pictures from way back in the spring of 2014, when William was less than a year old, and Joe was just about four months younger than William is now.

The gallery includes a few photos from Joe’s campout at YMCA Camp Jones Gulch, one of a few locations we visited for cabin camping during Joe’s time in Adventure Guides through the Y. When William entered kindergarten, I looked into signing up with him—I thought it would be a hoot if he could join the same circle, the Grizzlies, that Joe had been a part of, but I was a little disappointed to find that the YMCA no longers offers the Adventure Guides program in our area. I’m more than a little curious about what happened to the paraphernalia associated with our group: we had a carved table standard in the shape of a bear; a big drum; and a larger standard we used in parades, festooned with ribbons the kids won in competitions. Hopefully it’s not in a landfill.

The set also features some pictures of Joe’s first (and only) season at the Farm level in Little League. They realigned the age brackets after the season so that he was moved up to Minors the next year, which was a bit of a shame, as he could have used a bit more seasoning in Farm, where coaches pitch, before moving up to a kid-pitch league. Coincidentally, this was the same level at which William played this year. Time flies.

My brother Bill came to visit in this timeframe; it may have been the first time he met his namesake nephew. William made a positive first impression, as is his wont. Even at his six months, his personality shone like a beacon.

Gallery: Baseball, Camping, and Sprng

Fall 2020

Now that we’re finished posting pictures from our year-long remodel project, we can return to our slow-motion processing of regular old family snapshots. In that vein, here’s a large-ish collection of photos from the fall of last year.

In this timeframe, we’d been cooped up due to the COVID-19 pandemic1 for more than six months. And, because we had moved out of our house and into the rental, we were feeling a bit restless and untethered. With that in mind, we set out to to try some new activities, just to keep busy. We went on a few hikes, including a pleasant walk on the Los Gatos Creek Trail on Thanksgiving; we went for a scenic train ride on a narrow-gauge rail line in Felton; and Julie, William, and I took a road trip up to Alameda to visit a drive-through Dinosaur Adventure exhibit.

The trip to Felton was a hoot—and a little poignant—because it took us back to the railway where we took Julia for a Day Out with Thomas all the way back in 2007. It’s hard to fathom how much time has passed since then; sometimes, it feels like it was just a few weeks ago. To commemorate the occasion, we tried to take a comparion shot, but toddler Julia was a bit more interested in having her picture taken than the teenage version.

The set also includes a number of photos that highlight our year of distance learning. There are a few shots of William in class in Willville—he was often cold in the morning, so he loved to wear the Grandma Wong’s handmade sweaters—and a fun series of pictures of Felix waiting somewhat impatiently outside Julia’s door while she took an exam.

Finally, the album also covers Julia’s and William’s birthdays. Because kids weren’t really able to see their friends socially at the time, the trendy thing to do was rent yard signs to make their special days feel more festive. The installers do their work under cover of darkness the night before—you have to make sure to water the lawn so that the ground is soft enough to allow the signs to be staked down—and haul them away the next evening. You can even customize the iconography in the displays to match the recipient’s interests. We had done this for Joe over the summer, so Will (naturally) and Julia (perhaps a bit surprisingly) were both looking forward seeing to their signs. It gave them something new and different to anticipate amidst the blur of days blending together at home.

Between the pandemic and the move, it was a strange and occasionally surreal time for us all. The one clear upside was that I got to see a lot more of everyone, both after work, when we sat down for dinner together, and throughout the day: I got to watch William at the start of school every morning as I ate breakfast and chat with Joe and Julia when they took breaks for lunch. It’s better for everyone now that they’re back in school in-person, but I do miss having them around.

Gallery: Fall 2020


  1. Still going strong, with more than five million deaths worldwide and more than 750,000 here in the U.S.

School Pictures 2021

Just as school is back to a more normal routine this year, school pictures are more or less back on a normal schedule. This means we have them now, rather than at the end of the year, and that we have proper, posed portraits for all three kids instead of the snapshots we cobbled together at home last spring that left me thinking about dropping a not insignificant amount of money on light boxes.

William and Joe’s pictures are more or less your bog-standard school photos, and they did a pretty decent job of capturing each kid’s personality.

William - Second Grade

Joseph - Tenth Grade

William’s picture doesn’t convey the unbridled glee you can see in some of his earlier portraits, but you can still pick up on his carefree and slightly silly bearing. Joe seems a little more self-conscious and guarded in his picture, but that’s who he is in real life, too.

Because Julia’s a senior, we took her in for a longer photo shoot way back in July; we’ve only now gotten around to picking the shots that we liked best from the proofs the photographer sent us a few months ago.

Julia - Twelfth Grade

Julia - Cap and Gown

Julia - Cap, Gown, and Sign

The longer session allowed the photographer to work with Julia to create shots that are a joyful and fun celebration of her senior year. But they also brought a startling (to me) realization: these are the last school pictures she will ever take. It seems like only yesterday that we posted her kindergarten picture. I expect this is just one of many “lasts” we’ll face over the next few months, along with a few firsts.

For example: she submitted her very first college application yesterday afternoon, after a great deal of consternation and worry. With one under her belt, our hope is that she’ll find the remaining applications comparatively less intimidating and easier to face.

The photos embedded in this post are small, low-resolution copies of the kids’ portraits. You can find the full-size pictures in the dedicated galleries.

Galleries: Julia, Joseph, William

Week 42: Home

On July 9, nine-and-a-half months after we started construction, and a day over ten months since we moved into the rental, we made it back to our house on Harmil Way. The project was a long and winding road—the first email in my Remodel folder is dated August 2, 2017—that, at times, felt like it would never end, but it was an incredible feeling to finally be home again.

There wasn’t much left to do at the house, so not too much changed between the end of week 41 and our move-in date four days later. There were a few tweaks here and there—the boys’ bathtub door needed an adjustment and various bits of paint and trim needed attention—but our primary focus was on preparing for the move.

Each of us had settled in at the rental to varying degrees. Julia was completely unpacked within a week, while it took me a couple months to get the office in a more or less habitable state. On the other hand, we left most of the decorative items from our living room in boxes for the duration of our stay: we were using the corresponding space in the rental as Will’s distance learning classroom anyway, and there didn’t seem to be much point to unpacking it all.

Nevertheless, the days leading up to the move were a flurry of activity as we scrambled to prepare for the movers. As we did when we moved out of our house last September, we opted to do our own packing and leave just the furniture and other large items for the movers in a (perhaps misguided) attempt to save a little money. This also bought us a bit of time: we didn’t have to have everything ready to go by moving day; rather, we just had to have enough packed for the movers to pick up the furniture. Even so, it was a surprisingly close call, particularly for me, as I was using the office for work right up to the evening before the move. I found myself finishing up my preparations well after midnight the night before.

Moving day itself went smoothly, the only signification complication being that the moving company forgot to send us two trucks (and a correspondingly larger crew), despite the fact that they knew we were reversing the move we’d done last year, for which we’d gone well over the capacity of a single truck. They somehow managed to squeeze most of our large items in, but that still left us with a few things to haul over in Julie’s van. Luckily, the van can hold a surprising amount of stuff, and we had a readily available supply of manual labor in the form of Joe, so it wasn’t nearly the disaster it could have been.

The movers finished delivering and reassembling our furniture by mid-afternoon, which left us plenty of time to settle in before our first dinner at home, which we ordered from a local Chinest restaurant, as all of our kitchen stuff was still in boxes or at the rental. After we ate, we got to work unpacking just enough of our bedding so we could enjoy a comfortable night at home, in our own rooms.

Even though we were incredibly busy the day of the move, I did find time engage in one bit of somewhat extravagant sentimentality. When we first bought the house, all the way back in July of 2002—just a week short of nineteen years before this move, in fact—the previous owners, the Dowds, left us a handmade sign reading “Welcome Home” and a gift basket with coupons and gift certificates from various local businesses. The sign was placed on the bookshelf in the kitchen, so it was one of the first things we saw when we walked into the house after we got the keys.

Now, because I’m a little bit sentimental, we asked the builders to save that bookshelf for us so we could put it in our new kitchen as a memento. And because I’m actually really sentimental, I hung onto the sign for the entirety of the nearly nineteen years we owned the house; it actually sat in the trunk of my car for the entire time we were in the rental. So, naturally, I ran out to get a flower basket the morning of the move and placed it and the sign on the very same bookshelf in its new spot between the kitchen and family room so it would be there when Julie came over with the movers after lunch.

The days after the move were a blur. We shuttled back and forth between the rental and the house throughout the weekend and well into the following week: there was a lot left to move, and we were faced with the daunting prospect of cleaning things up in the hope that the owners could rent it out quickly, saving us a bit of money on the back end of our lease. That didn’t go quite according to plan, but, as busy as those days were, they felt like an epilogue. After a long and surreal (if you’re reading this in the far future, look up “COVID-19”) year, we were home.

Gallery: Week 42: Home

Week 41: Projects

Having passed our final inspections the previous week, things really slowed down in week 41, as there was little left to do other than taking care of some finishing touches.

For example, there were still a few areas where the paint needed attention. The water closet in our master bathroom had a few easily repair glitches, and if you look very closely at the front view of the house, you can see that the trim between the siding and the shingles is yellow, matching the siding, rather than white, matching the shingles. These would all be cleaned up in the days leading up to our move.

We also used this week (and the fact that we finally had Julie’s car back) to take care of some projects we wanted to get out of the way before we moved in. We assembled William’s bed and topped it with a new mattress; and Joe and I re-painted the mirror that had hung over the laundry tub in our old garage for use in our new laundry room. Julie picked out the color, which we also plan to use on the backing board for coat hooks by the door.

Despite my marginal success hanging the living room mirror the week before, there were a some projects we weren’t completely comfortable taking on ourselves in the limited time we had before the move. With that in mind, we paid Enzo a little bit extra to have one of the guys from his crew take care of them. The crew member, Fernando, hung the wall-mounted bookshelf that we had saved from Joe’s old bedroom in his new bedroom—the hardest part there was making sure there would be enough room for his bed—as well as the small bookshelf that used to sit over our microwave cart in the kitchen; it fulfills the same role in the new setup.

We also asked him to put up the overhead shelves we’d salvaged from our old garage. These were custom-built to match the old garage’s dimensions, so they’re not an perfect fit, but we found a configuration that works pretty well. I was happy that they were still intact, seing as they sat outside in the back yard for the last few months of the project. Since we lost the built-in storage for large items we used to have over the workbench, we bought some additional overhead storage and asked him to install it, as well.

To commemorate the completion of the remodel, Julia graciously agreed to record a brief walking tour of the house; the gallery also contains a considerably less interesting video clip of our garage door going up.

With work wrapping up and our move-in date fast approaching, the coming week presented us with one of the most arduous tasks of all: packing up for the move.

Gallery: Week 41: Projects

Week 40: Inspections

Week 40 of the remodel was a big one: after just over nine months of construction, the house passed the city’s final inspections, marking the completion of the project, at least as far as the city of San José was concerned. We still weren’t completely done: we were still waiting on a few fixes from Enzo, as well as some plumbing, cleaning, and other odd jobs before we’d be ready to move back in. Nevertheless, this was a big step.

Julie and the kids happened to be in Nebraska this week, as well, which gave me an opportunity to spend some time in the house alone for the first time; if the photos are somewhat lacking this week, that’s probably why. The entire experience felt a bit surreal, especially since the window treatments weren’t installed, which made it feel as though my every move was on display for the neighbors.

Externally, the most visible change was pretty minor in the grand scheme of things: Enzo and his team painted the front porch gray. This was necessary because, out of a combination of frugality and sentimentality, we decided to keep the original porch and sidewalk. Both were in reasonable condition, so there wasn’t a compelling need to replace them, but there was a small hangup: there was an unfinished gap at the back of the porch that used to be covered by the brickwork under the dining room window. With the front door now occupying that wall, the bricks were gone, leaving the gap exposed.

Enzo was able to fill and seal the gap without difficulty, but there was no way he was going to be able to match the color of the original porch. Even if he had known the specific shade it was painted back in the day, the porch’s finish had been weathered by decades of sun, wind, and rain. Instead, we opted to paint the porch a neutral gray and leave the front walk unchanged. I was a little worried that the contrast between the two would be jarring, but it worked out well.

Enzo managed a couple other tricks this week. The temporary power pole, which was no longer needed after the house was connected to the grid the previous week, disappeared overnight. And our garbage and recycling bins, which vanished at some point very early in the project, reappeared out of nowhere after we casually mentioned that we needed to figure out how to get new ones. Are these the same trash containers we had before construction started? Had they been stored somewhere offsite? Did one of our neighbors borrow them for the duration of the project and return them in the dead of night? We have no idea! But they were back, and that was one less thing for us to worry about.

Around this time, I was very happy to discover some fresh shoots from the rose that used to sit in front of the house, outside the kitchen. The entire bush had been removed down to the ground during construction, so it was a pleasant surprise to see that some part of it survived. Of course—as Julie warned me—it’s very likely that these are Dr. Huey canes coming up from the root stock under the original plant’s graft, so the resulting growth will almost certainly look nothing like our old rose, but it was still exciting to see some signs of life.

Inside the house, the plumbers installed new toilets in the downstairs bathrooms: the internal hardware in the old toilets needed to be replaced, and the cost to do so, including labor, was almost the same as the cost to replace them. So, we now have brand-new toilets with fancy bidet seats that I still haven’t figured out how to use.

In what seemed to me to be something of a minor miracle, we also have a full complement of can lights in the garage. Fully half the lights had been covered up by the drywall team during construction, and I was skeptical that Enzo would be able to find them without punching a bunch of extra holes in the ceiling. He reassured us that he had accurate measurements, but I was still a bit dubious—wrongly so, as it turns out. Both banks of lights are exposed and fully operational.

While the rest of the family was out of town, I took the opportunity to work on setting a few things up for our move-in date. To start, I hung our living room mirror back in its old spot above the fireplace. It’s a bit higher than it had been, to accommodate the higher mantel, and it’s almost level. It took a few hours, and there was a false start or two, but it was gratifying to get it done.

I also started the process of hooking up connectors for speakers in the family room. I didn’t make as much progress here as I’d hoped—in fact, some of the speakers are still not connected—but at least I was able to get a sense for the scope of the project. The connectors I’d chosen, Neutrik SpeakOn connectors, turned out to be a bit bigger than I anticipated and are undoubtedly overkill for our application, so I actually checked in with Julie in Nebraska via FaceTime to make sure they wouldn’t be too obtrusive.

We were very close to the end now: just one more week of work, and then we’d be set to move in. The movers were scheduled to arrive at the rental bright and early the morning of July 9, and if everything went according to plan, that would be our first night in the new house.

Gallery: Week 40: Inspections